Why Can't I Get A Good Girl?

​Are You Being Chased by the Right Type of Man? ​One day sometime ago, I posted that women were to be found by men. In the caption, I explained that a man should be the one pursuing a woman, not the opposite. There was a woman who commented on this post and she said something along the lines of she doesn't get chased by men. Then she continued on to say that men aren't interested in her. My heart sunk. She didn't say it but I knew she felt unwanted, as if no man would ever chase her. As we

The Struggle! ​"Everyday of my life, I am struggling to kill the flesh"  ​ Just because I am a Celibacy blogger doesn't mean celibacy is always a walk in the park. People have this misconception that my boyfriend and I don't stuggle on any level. As if we're robots without flesh lol. We're delighted that you view us that way but we're human. We deal with struggles in our celibacy journey just like anyone else. Everyone always shares the positives but what about the struggle? What about those

​Timetables  ​It's time to throw away timetables that God didn't plan for your life. You are supposed to be married with kids by now based on someone else's timetable. You are supposed to have found "the one" by now based on someone else's timetable. You are supposed to be in a serious relationship by now based on someone else's timetable. You should at least be engaged by now, based on someone else's timetable. At what point does one appreciate their own timetable that God has provided just for

​Future Mr. and Mrs. Jackson  ​How did Maurice and Raquel meet?  Maurice and Raquel went to the same high school, they saw each other in passing but never spoken until they reconnected on Facebook. Maurice and Raquel both shared a similar interest in art and their heart for art led them to the first conversation, which ultimately led to a deeper interest in one another.  ​When did Maurice and Raquel decide to wait?  After Maurice and Raquel made their relationship official, Maurice told Raquel

Setting Boundaries  Rumor has it that you’re dating someone new?! Or maybe you aren’t lol but let’s talk about boundaries when dating while celibate. First things first, ladies, I’m not saying all men lie but don’t be naïve. Be smart. Just because he says that he is willing to wait, doesn’t necessarily mean he is WILLING to wait. He hears you but he’ll want to test you. He wants to see how serious you are about waiting so that first wave of dates…matter! For example, let’s say it’s the third

​The Blunt Truth about Women and Men and Waiting... I understand that men should wait to be obedient to God regardless of whether or not a female will allow him to have sex. Ideally, that's how men and women alike should operate! However, if I could just be honest...most men aren't waiting because they aren't required to and if they were required to, there would be more men waiting because they wouldn't have a choice. I believe that most women don't require men to wait because she isn't

Future Mr. and Mrs. Skinner It’s time to highlight a couple who waits! Meet Montai Skinner and Deona Wilcox, soon to be Mr. and Mrs. Skinner! On June 9th 2018, Montai and Deona will tie the knot to become one flesh! How Montai and Deona met? Two years ago, in August of 2015, when Deona was working at a sneaker store, a certain someone visited the store several times to purchase sneakers and clothes with other plans in mind to pursue a certain lady. That guy was Montai! Deona had no clue at the

​"I Know..." ​I know what it feels like to be alone, wondering what God has in store for you. I know the struggle of trying to stay hopeful but on the inside feeling hopeless. Everyone had a mate but I was still single...couldn't get it right to save my life. It's like every guy I dated, I waited and expected the pieces to crumble and they did... I know what it's like to cry at night. Even if I didn't know the exact reason why, it just felt good to let it out. I know what it's like to have your

"We Just Talk" ​This is the worst phase to be in, in my opinion. I would think it's better to be single than involved in a complicated situation that only gets more  complicated as time passes by. The beginning is usually fun, y'all just kicking it with not one care in this world. Then feelings pop up. Now it's been six months and the honeymoon phase is over. That's when reality kicks in and those questions start rolling in. "So what are we?" Pause. If you ever have to ask anybody that

​Relationship Status: Convenient Have you ever known a couple that was hanging on by a thread only because it was convenient? Maybe you don't know someone... maybe it's you?  How do you know if the relationship is convenient? You weigh the relationship. If you were to move today or tomorrow, would your relationship still be solid? You're probably thinking, "Distance isn't for everyone." Right lol I hear you, but what if ya'll didn't attend the same school, didn't work at the same job, hold

Real Men of God WAIT Too!  ​There seems to be a vast majority of females waiting until marriage to give themselves away with a small number of males waiting in comparison to the females? Why? I have no clue because last I checked, women of God and men of God read the same Holy Bible across the globe...different languages of course, but fornication and sexual immorality is wrong no matter what language you read it in. As a man of God, you should not only be waiting until marriage but should also

Emotional Roller-coaster Recently I had a conversation with someone that reminded me of the emotional roller-coaster. For those unfamiliar with the emotional roller-coaster, that’s when you are dating someone and one minute you’re up and the next minute you’re down. One minute y’all are together…the next minute, y’all are broken up. It’s tiring to say the least. When you are happy, you’re wondering how long will the happiness last before the next hiccup.  While experiencing the hiccup, you’re